Welcome myself back to the blog after 2 years!!

I was talking to my girlfriend and decided to take a peek at someone's else blog. After a while, I just realized that I do have a blog, and as I was scrolling back, OMG! I haven't blog for the past 2 years.
The last time when I blog, it was the time when I was quite upset and in despair (that's why I only see lyrics 'cos I was then indulging in my own sadness). Well, at least time flies, and now I am happy again... :D

Back to topic : What are your opinions about people who blogs and gives their comments on their relationship (knowing that their partners can jolly well read them - sometimes I feel it is like hanging your dirty laundries and publicly display them) . I understand some people blog to vent their frustations and show their unhappiness - and it does make them feel happier; thinking someone will read them and feel the same way as you do. It is also a communication bridge when you find that it is hard to vocalize what is in your mind. But if blogging becomes a tool that will hurt another person, I think this is a sad thing.

I remember a conversation with GBB, and he mentioned that singaporean women - high in IQ but low in EQ, and this is getting more and more obvious for the younger age group. Does that mean the more educated you are, the less EQ you have? He mentioned to me a smart woman is one who has a high EQ and can make people work towards them. In relationship, a smart woman is also one who knows how to make her man feels good and looks good in front of the others, but yet able to gain respect for her - and so far, in my opinion, I saw 2 such women in my opinions - Miss J and Miss L. It doesn't that they are not educated, but being educated and yet able to present themselves and know how to handle well, and this is not easy.

Anyway, I seem to be out-of-the-topic again. I just think that everything that one does, if it will hurt another person, should we still continue to do it? Am I too soft? I just want everyone to be happy at the end of the day; and isn't life too short to be always unhappy? Or maybe it is because life is short, one should just do want he wants? Be it blogging, stepping on 2 boats or 3 boats, always putting themselves ahead... I do admire those people who always voiced out what they want, as I think they are 'courageous' and very open and honest about themselves. But when loud becomes toooo LOUD, then it creates issues and problems.

Reflections of the day : To be a smart women, when IQ is high, EQ must be higher.